Going in Grace

In this episode, we’re exploring the life of Stephen—the first martyr of the early church.
Stephen’s story, found in Acts chapters 6 and 7, is brief but amazing. He wasn’t one of the twelve apostles, yet his courage, wisdom, and unwavering faith left a legacy that still speaks today. Whether you’re leading, learning, or just longing for deeper boldness in your walk with Christ, this episode is for you.

Stephen was chosen as one of the seven to help distribute food fairly among widows—not because of his résumé, but because of his character. Acts 6:1-5a says “Now in those days, when the number of the disciples was multiplying, there arose a complaint against the Hebrews by the Hellenists, because their widows were neglected in the daily distribution. Then the twelve summoned the multitude of the disciples and said, “It is not desirable that we should leave the word of God and serve tables. Therefore, brethren, seek out from among you seven men of good reputation, full of the Holy Spirit and wisdom, whom we may appoint over this business; but we will give ourselves continually to prayer and to the ministry of the word. And the saying pleased the whole multitude. And they chose Stephen, a man full of faith and the Holy Spirit….”

Here we learn our first lesson from Stephen. Before God elevates us in influence, He refines us in integrity. In ministry, business, or family life, our reputation and spiritual maturity matter more than our credentials. Stephen reminds us that being “full of the Holy Spirit and wisdom” is the foundation for any meaningful calling.

Stephen didn’t shy away from truth. In Acts 7, he delivers a powerful sermon, one of the most beautiful in all of scripture in my opinion, recounting Israel’s history and calling out their resistance to the Holy Spirit.
Acts 7:51-53 “You stiff-necked[g] and uncircumcised in heart and ears! You always resist the Holy Spirit; as your fathers did, so do you. Which of the prophets did your fathers not persecute? And they killed those who foretold the coming of the Just One, of whom you now have become the betrayers and murderers, who have received the law by the direction of angels and have not kept it.”

Truth-telling isn’t always popular. Whether it’s confronting injustice, speaking biblical truth in secular spaces, or lovingly correcting within the church, boldness is required. Stephen’s courage challenges us to speak truth—even when it’s uncomfortable. This is our second lesson. Speak the truth!

Stephen wasn’t just bold—he was brilliant. Acts 6:10 says "his opponents couldn’t resist the wisdom and Spirit by which he spoke." Remember that the spirit of the living God is the main attraction, and He will attract others to you. In a world full of noise, Spirit-led wisdom cuts through confusion. Whether you’re navigating workplace politics, theological debates, or personal decisions, Stephen’s third lesson to us is that wisdom rooted in the Spirit is both powerful and persuasive.

Stephen’s final lesson to us is one of radical love. His final words echo those of Jesus on the cross. In Luke 23:34a Jesus says “Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they do.” In Acts 7:60, speaking of Stephen during his stoning it says “Then he knelt down and cried out with a loud voice, “Lord, do not charge them with this sin.” And when he had said this, he fell asleep.” Sleep meaning that he died in this case. Stephen in his final lesson to us teaches us how to be the bigger person in the most tremendous way, forgiving and interceding for those who are killing him. Forgiveness is the ultimate act of spiritual maturity. In a culture of canceling others, retaliation and bitterness, Stephen models grace under pressure. Whether it’s a betrayal, misunderstanding, or deep hurt, forgiveness frees us and reflects Christ.

As we consider the life of Stephen this week, let’s reflect on the following:
• Am I cultivating character that God can trust with greater responsibility?
• Where am I being called to speak truth with love and conviction?
• Am I relying on the Holy Spirit for wisdom, or just my own understanding?
• What would change in my life if I truly lived with eternity in view?
• Who do I need to release through forgiveness today?

Stephen’s life was short—but his impact was powerful and eternal. He teaches us that ordinary people, filled with the Spirit, can live with extraordinary courage. His story challenges us to lead with character, speak with boldness, and love with grace.

Today, whether you’re facing opposition, seeking wisdom, or simply longing to live more boldly for Christ—remember Stephen. Stand firm. Speak truth.

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